When you are in pain or crisis, there are three main ways that most people respond. 

Sometimes they pity you. 

Sometimes they judge you. 

Sometimes they try to fix you / your problem. 

And yet none of these responses inspire true connection, healing or growth. 

In today’s episode, I’ll share what does inspire connection, healing and growth — and it mostly requires you to avoid giving and receiving advice. 

Why? 

Because advice in all its forms — fixing, judging and pity — short-circuits what is trying to unfold through your beautiful story. 

Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.com

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Amy is feeling proud and excited, while Kat is just plain grateful. After their feelings of the day, Amy shares a wild follow-up: when Kat’s near-abduction story aired on the Bobby Bones Show, a listener called in to say the exact same parking-lot scheme happened to her days later. Amy questions whether Mercury in retrograde is real after she and Kat had completely opposite days, and they go through common thoughts that feel helpful but might be overthinking in disguise. Plus, a listener’s tip for running a book club, a check-in on this month’s read, a book recommendation for expecting moms, and the signs you own too much stuff and it’s time to declutter.

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Amy talks about her book event last night with Jenna Bush Hager. Then we were worried that Amy might have embarrassed herself in front of a country artist. Eddie asks for our permission to unload on us of what is frustrating him today. We might book controversial guests and Bobby gives his final verdict. Amy is in awe of Bobby’s luxurious item at his house.

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Amy talked about her parenting fail that made Bobby laugh out loud at the picture. She was mortified at what happened to her son at school that was her fault. Bobby talked about why he doesn't believe in Friday the 13th and whether or not you are more likely to die today.  Then we play a highly competitive round of Easy Trivia!

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It's a Rock Music Death Match as Bobby, Eddie and Ahmad put Tom Petty and the Eagles head-to-head to decide who has the better catalog of songs. From "Free Fallin'" vs. "Hotel California" to "Mary Jane's Last Dance" vs. "Witchy Woman," they debate 10 matchups featuring some of rock's biggest hits. With tough decisions, surprising picks and a tiebreaker to settle it all, which legendary artist comes out on top? Plus, Bobby answers listener questions and give his Week 10 Power Rankings for Dancing with the Stars!

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Ray is having some issues with his insides and it's causing him to leak in a bad way. Lunchbox and Ray end up in tears trying to get through the situation in the studio. Lunchbox thinks Ray should be doing sales because Ray has made Lunchbox purchase the book Daddy Issues by Sofia Franklyn. Who's team will you be on Alex Cooper or Sofia Franklyn with the Call Her Daddy drama? Plus Lunchbox lost his cool on his opponent in coed soccer after the goalie was doing something that Lunchbox thinks is 100% lame. Last but not least time to make some MONEY with Lunchbox's Locks! 

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It's a Rock Music Death Match as Bobby, Eddie and Ahmad put Tom Petty and the Eagles head-to-head to decide who has the better catalog of songs. From "Free Fallin'" vs. "Hotel California" to "Mary Jane's Last Dance" vs. "Witchy Woman," they debate 10 matchups featuring some of rock's biggest hits. With tough decisions, surprising picks and a tiebreaker to settle it all, which legendary artist comes out on top? Plus, Bobby answers listener questions and give his Week 10 Power Rankings for Dancing with the Stars!

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The NFL odds are shifting after the trade deadline, and DraftKings' Johnny Avello joins the show to break down the biggest moves, which teams bettors have gotten wrong, and some wild stories from his career in Vegas. Plus, Bobby reveals his Super Bowl pick, shares an odd detail about Rex Ryan living in Nashville following his arrest, and the guys debate whether the Cowboys can still turn their season around. 

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Bobby talked about hosting the Veterans Day concert last night and meeting an A-list celebrity that we were all jealous of.  Bobby talked about his experience doing a ‘hot lap’ on the track and why he almost turned it down. We talked about a celebrity's dad who was arrested for something awful and removed their ankle bracelet.  Bobby had bad news for the show on how we lost a lot of money.

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